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Losing Your Dad

Losing your dad is one of life’s most painful and traumatic events. It’s different for each person, yet there are some shared emotions and issues. Here are a few words of advice that I hope will help you as you go through this painful time of loss. • Attend to present feelings Don’t wall your grief off.

09May

Losing Your Mom

Mothers are not perfect and neither are their children. Some mothers are confidants, others are critics. Some mothers maintain control even into their children’s adulthood, and others foster a sense of independence early on. Whatever your relationship with your mother, it is important to acknowledge your feelings

01May

Prayer for Starting Over

Dear God, give methe courage to begin again –to overlook the difficulties,to overcome the obstaclesand to stay open to themoment as best I can. Helpme be patient enough to knowit takes time to start over,and wise enough to ask for helpfrom friends and familywhen I need it.As I look

15Apr

Things You Should Know When Someone Dies Unexpectedly

I recently attended a grief presentation where the speaker pointed out that Americans hide from death. We don’t talk about it, we don’t think about it and it’s something that happens to other people. At Abbey Caskets, we are constantly talking with people about planning for their funerals. We have families who

03Apr

Things To Consider in Completing an Advance Directive for Healthcare

Many people think that Advance Healthcare Planning is only for elderly and ill people. While the actions of completing and discussing these documents are very important for those who are diagnosed with life-threatening illnesses, it is important for all adults to consider our wishes should we one day be unable to

06Feb

Cherishing Your Memories of a Loved One

Memories are personal. Whether it’s simply speaking the name of your beloved one, holding a ceremony to honor his or her memory, or revisiting a favorite place or activity you shared, the key is to make and preserve connections. Here are a few ideas to help you strengthen cherished connections with someone you

30Jan

Regarding Cremation, Christian funerals and Burials

The Church’s teaching on funerals, cremation and burial is summarized in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. At number 2300 in that document, the official teaching states: The bodies of the dead must be treated with respect and charity, in faith and hope of the Resurrection. The burial of the dead is a corporal

08Jan

A Reflection on Our Service of the Longest Night

For some, Christmas can be a reminder of all the loss that they’ve had to endure through the year. Or even a loss that occurred years ago that still causes great heartache. On December 21st a small group of people gathered in the Guest House Chapel to observe the Service of the Longest Night, hosted by Abbey

13Nov

Ten Helps for an Alzheimer’s Family

Like millions of other people, my neighbor Bob cared for a loved one with Alzheimer’s Disease. For three years, I watched Bob’s wife, a once bright and vivacious woman, turn into a shell of her former self. When I met them in the condo hallway, she gave me a blank look. Then Bob gently told her, “Say hello.” With

30Oct

Create a Great Funeral Day

Yes, this is a real “holiday.” Observed on October 30th, this holiday was registered in 1999 as a day for people to think about how they want to be remembered and let your family know your plans. Avoid a “Facelift Funeral” with Create a Great Funeral Day by Gail Rubin acknowledges the fear that people have about

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Losing Your Dad

Losing Your Mom

Prayer for Starting Over

Things You Should Know When Someone Dies Unexpectedly

Things To Consider in Completing an Advance Directive for Healthcare

Cherishing Your Memories of a Loved One

Regarding Cremation, Christian funerals and Burials

A Reflection on Our Service of the Longest Night

Ten Helps for an Alzheimer’s Family

Create a Great Funeral Day

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